Verbal Abuse

Sabrina Minton Mrs. Laura Ahmed English 3A 10-25-10 vocal Abuse The reason why I choose this topic is because I have been a victim of literal shout. Many community slam or have heard of person that has been verbally abused. Many people including myself be suffer in silence and olfactory modality isolated. Many move of human action, include the mind and kindling. As he thinks within himself, so he is. What does a individual think in his or her mind, and heart will be reflected and his or her words or actions. In this cover, I want to address this very important issue in an stew to understand this phenomenon and provide answers.Verbal abuse and physical abuse result from a world view that is clearly not biblical. The difficulty of verbal abuse is that there be no visible signs. The majority cases verbal abusers are often male and the victim is usually female. Kerby Anderson who wrote Verbal Abuse has galore(postnominal) degrees. He has a B. S. from Oregon State Universit y, M. F. S from Yale University, and M. A. from Georgetown University. And has authored many books (Anderson). Patricia Evan has write many books and has been seen on KTLA5THECW, FOX11 NEWS, Oprah Winfrey Show, Sonya Live-CNN and NEWS TALK.She has done over two carbon radio programs, and seventeen national television shows (Evans). Kerby Anderson says he writes his paper from an educate token of view but more importantly he is man. custody are most often the abuser in a human relationship with women being the victim. Mr. Anderson has several degrees and advocates that both the victim and abuser seek foster and subscribe to within their religious faith. He feels that this behavior is often versed at home and that devotion to family and church and economic aid train these abusers.He similarly suggests that godly men and women gather together to lovingly confront the person who is verbally abusing the victim. He suggests that the abuser confronts their sin and make an attemp t to vary with the support of the church. Patricia Evans does not have an educational degree but has write several books and established a foundation for support and workshops for people who feel that have been abused. Ms. Evans is a woman and has a very alterative point of treatment. She feels angry or critical words will destroy your assertion or self-esteem. She views verbal abuse s a boiling caldron of pain and anguish in possibly millions of homes. She worries that a person who dexterity cross from verbal to physical abuse is likely to show signs of an imminent physical assault by launching intense and repeated verbal attacks, by indulging in rages or by becoming scurrilous in public. She tends to address the needs of the abuser with support groups, workshops and books to help grade behavior and help recognize and deal with abusive people. I wrote my paper with a personal bias, as I have been the victim of verbal abuse. I decided to compare two different authors based on approach, education and gender.Although only Mr. Anderson has degrees, both have compose books and have fine references. I really liked that both people had a written books. Often times victims are of low income and self help books can be a great resource. Mr. Anderson suggests the church as s support group and for many people this would probably be a work fitted option. I personally prefer a more therapeutic approach. I thought the establishment of workshops with people who had experienced similar situations and the added support of therapists and staff would make for a better option to help dampen the pattern of abuse.The workshops would seem to be the best way to educate yourself and cop the behavior skills to help assure you avoid future situations. I snarl both authors had excellent in manakination. Mr. Andersons learning was in a bookform with 7 pages that read like a textbook. Ms. Evans development was keyed to special questions that a person would answer, according to their feeling and situation. Again there are questions that redirect the readerto another page with topic specific information with a set of questions to see if you needed more information or had obtained the information you needed.The pages also linked to workshops, support groups, self help books, and videos. Mr. Andersons advice and information may suit some people well and they may already attend a church. To be fair Mr. Andersons information is relevant for anyone, scarce as Ms Evans would be appropriate for a religious person. If someone was looking for good information and options of the subject, either author would be able to provide that.Works Cited Anderson, Kerby. Probe Ministries Verbal Abuse. 14 July 2002. ltwww. leaderu. comgt. Patricia, Evans. Verbal Abuse Survivors call Out On Relationship and Recovery . 1993.